The definition of what it means to “go all in” differs for every person, which is why success in life can entail a different perspective for every individual. However, the key to success in life lies in consciously building a winning mindset.
What is success in life: 4 ways to build a winning mindset
Growing up, we defined success based on what the adults in our lives told us it meant. But it’s not one all-encompassing definition; success is defined by each person’s own standards. These ideas can help you develop a winning mindset:
Define what success means to you
The definition of success is relative. People who became successful later in life realized this: success is subjective, not objective, and it’s not linear. Just because one person defines success in a certain way doesn’t mean that you need to follow suit. You need to create your own definition of success that is specifically built for you.
You are what you think
Our mind plays a very powerful role in what we believe and how we think. What we think about ourselves and our abilities determines how we act and lead our lives. You will achieve what you believe. Whether conscious or unconscious, how you choose to interpret your experiences can limit what you can achieve. There is power in believing that you can improve and accomplish what you set out to achieve by looking at failures and setbacks as a medium for growth.
Shift from a fixed mindset to a winning mindset
You can’t make new plans with an old mindset. Those with a growth mindset do not feel limited by their lack of knowledge or prowess. When you look at successful people or those who have achieved mastery in life, what do you tell yourself – that they are more gifted than others, that they have talent, or do you believe success comes from hard work, developing new strategies, drawing inspiration from others, investing in learning, and through constant improvement.
Be self-aware and channel your purpose
It all starts with self-awareness and recognizing where you are right now and the journey you have been on. The act of discovering who we are will persuade us to go further. Our circumstances may lead us to doubt our capabilities and limit ourselves. The key is to overcome self-doubt and take charge of your life. Recognize that you make the decisions; that you are in control and have the ability to change things if something isn’t going as planned. There is no passion to be found in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.
Takeaway: Keys to success in life
Examples of success in life can vary from person to person. So, how do we shift ourselves from being limited by our abilities and intelligence to finding freedom in building them?
- “You are far too smart to be the only one standing in your way.”
- The fear of success or failure is about understanding where that fear comes from and being able to address it for what it is so that you can move forward.
- Identify the areas in your life where you lack confidence—the areas where you sit deep and are entrenched in your comfort zone.
- How are you investing in yourself? Do you have plans in place or scheduled to invest in yourself in order to get you to where you want to be?
- Think about what success means to you, then work on going all-in.